Be...

Passionate, but not dramatic.

Compassionate, but not pitying.

Sensitive, but not temperamental or overemotional.

Courageous, but not stupid.

Opinionated, but not pushy.

Strong, but not cold.

Firm, but not inflexible.

Doubtful, but not close-minded or judgmental.

Patient, but not a pushover.

Charming, but not flirtatious.

Confident, but not arrogant.

Humble, but not self-deprecating.

Humourous, but not irritating.

Sarcastic, but never hurtful.

Wise, but not preachy.

Intelligent, but not patronizing.

Proud, but not egotistical.

Noble, but not superior.

Polite, but not fake.

Social, but not attention-seeking.

Meditative, but not closed-off.

Curious, but not nosey.

Responsible, but not uptight.

Enigmatic, but not unsolvable.

Rational, but true to your heart.

Communicative, but know when to shut up or just let it go.

Silly at times, but know when to be serious.

Helpful, but always take care of yourself.

Understanding, but from many points of view.

Open, but not about everything (at least, not all at once). 

Honest, genuine, and sincere, unless you’re joking.

Objective to the best of your abilities, unless it is a subjective manner.

And most of all: be kind to all living creatures.